Transit South Node Square Natal Lilith

An old script tries to keep you safe by making you small, while a raw, unedited part insists on being seen. This period stirs friction between familiarity and untamed truth, pulling up shame, heat, and memory. It asks for a different kind of loyalty: to yourself, without betraying your heart.

This transit activates an intimate standoff between past survival strategies and the part of you that refuses exile. The South Node tugs you toward familiar roles: the peacemaker, the good one, the one who doesn’t need much. Lilith lights the fuse under what’s been muted — desire, anger, appetite, truth-telling — and the body often registers it first: a tightening jaw, a fluttering gut, heat in the chest. The old pattern promises safety if you shrink; the wild voice insists safety without self-betrayal. In the crossfire, shame can spike: the feeling of being too much, too needy, too intense, too loud.

Working with this energy means building a bridge between the one who kept you safe and the one who keeps you real. Instead of swinging from compliance to eruption, practice naming what’s happening in real time: “This is the old reflex. This is my true want.” Give Lilith a dignified channel — a boundary, a clear request, a piece of art, a direct sentence — and offer the South Node compassion for its loyalty. When shame rises, treat it as a signal that a younger rule is being challenged. Integration here isn’t rebellion for rebellion’s sake; it’s choosing self-respect while staying connected, letting desire be information rather than indictment.