Transit Lilith Square Natal South Node

This transit stirs the parts of you that were exiled to keep the peace, then places them nose-to-nose with your oldest habits. The tension is real: raw truth pressing against the well-worn grooves of how you’ve always coped, charmed, pleased, or disappeared. It asks you to notice where comfort has become a cage and to choose a truer form of belonging.

Lilith brings the untamed voice, the heat under the skin, the no that rises from the bones. Squared to the South Node, it brushes against the grain of your default survival strategies — the pleasing, the smoothing, the clever ways you earned a seat at the table. You might feel pulled toward an old script even as another part of you refuses to recite it. Desire, anger, or erotic aliveness can carry memory, and memory can be soaked in shame. The square doesn’t demand rebellion for its own sake; it exposes where you’ve outgrown the past and where it still tugs at your sleeve.

Working with this energy is less about detonating bridges and more about re-negotiating loyalty. You can honor what kept you safe while no longer letting it steer. When shame flares, treat it as a signal that a hidden rule is being broken; name the rule, and ask who it serves now. Let the body be a witness, not a judge. In the friction, you practice a wider belonging: one that includes the wild truth and the learned grace, but is ruled by neither.