Transit Lilith Square Natal North Node
Shadow meets purpose
This transit brings friction between your raw, untamed self and the path your life is asking you to grow toward. What’s taboo, shamed, or “too much” rises to the surface and challenges your carefully held plans. It asks you to make room for the parts of you that refuse to be domesticated, without letting them drive you off the road.
Strengths & Challenges
Strengths
- Radical honesty — naming forbidden feelings opens real choice.
- Boundary clarity — sensing where compliance erodes self-respect.
- Courageous course correction — willingness to pivot toward a truer path.
Challenges
- Self-sabotage urges — poking holes in progress when vulnerability rises.
- Power struggles — oscillating between defiance and appeasement.
- Purity myth — believing you must be spotless to be worthy.
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When Lilith squares the North Node, the part of you that refuses to be tamed presses against the part that longs to progress. You may feel allergic to expectations, skeptical of plans, magnetized to whatever’s off-limits. Old shame flares. Desire and defiance become loud, sometimes wearing the mask of anger, envy, or cutting humor. The friction shows where your future has been designed to be acceptable rather than alive, and where compliance has quietly cost you heat.
Working with this square isn’t about choosing either destiny or desire; it’s about letting them sit at the same table. Ask what your unruly impulses are protecting: a boundary, a truth, a deeper appetite for freedom. Translating that information into consent, pacing, and integrity keeps you on path without amputating your instincts. Slow down decisions that feel like ultimatums. Let your anger be a map, not a weapon. When the plan includes your shadow, purpose gains voltage and becomes sustainable.
Life Areas & Expression
Relationships & Intimacy
Raw truths about desire, jealousy, and power dynamics may surface, and you might bristle at unspoken roles. Speak the unspeakable with care; let honesty revise the container, not burn it down.
Work & Purpose
You could feel restless with sanitized missions or authority that asks you to shrink. Channel dissent into proposals, boundaries, and projects that align with your deeper motives so the path widens rather than collapses.
Body, Sexuality & Power
Shame stories about your body or appetites can intensify, along with a magnetic pull toward what you’ve exiled. Meet it with curiosity and consent; reclaim agency through honest limits, not self-erasure.
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Let this season show you which parts of your passion you’ve been trying to keep out of the future. Instead of purifying yourself to earn direction, bring your whole texture to it. You don’t need to dramatize your no or deny your yes; you need a language that can hold both.
Practice responsibility without self-rejection. Own the impact of your choices and also the rightness of your instincts. When you stop arguing with your heat and start shaping it, the path stops feeling like a cage and starts feeling like a vow you’re ready to keep.
My future strengthens when I stop exiling my fire.
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