Transit Lilith Square Natal Ceres

Lilith square Ceres stirs friction between the part of you that refuses to be tamed and the part that longs to tend and be tended. Old scripts about what a “good” caregiver or “good” person should be rub against raw appetites and private truths. This transit asks for renegotiation—of boundaries, of nourishment, and of who gets to be fed first.

This square brings the wild and the wholesome into conversation. You may feel irritated by obligations that once felt fine, or suddenly aware of a hunger you’ve been skimming over—attention, touch, freedom, literal food. The “good provider” or “good child” inside meets the unapologetic voice that doesn’t want to be domesticated. Shame, especially around needs and appetites, can flare. It’s not just about desire; it’s about who got to have needs in your early story, and who learned to go without.

Working with this energy means feeding yourself in ways that don’t betray your integrity. Honest nourishment rarely looks like perfection; it looks like rhythm, consent, and enough. Instead of choosing between rebellion and self-sacrifice, there is a path of wise provision—care that includes you. When you let the feral parts have a seat at the table, you don’t lose civility; you gain truth, and truth is what makes tending sustainable.